Bondage

Bondage is the practice of binding a person with rope, tape, cuffs, or other restraints, for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation

Bondage

Health risk	Moderate
Legal risk	Moderate

Background

Bondage is an ancient practice. It may be practiced for specific purposes such as sexual acts, for aesthetics/art, for torture, or for meditation. Many practices

Appeal

The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic. For others

Methods

Rope

tape, chain, latex/leather restraints

cuffs

material (mummification)

Total enclosure

clothing (straight jackets, hoods etc)

Suspension (higher risk)

Risks

Circulation

Nerve damage

panic/anxiety/ptsd

dizzy/faint

joint injury

Drop

allergy

Risk mitigation

Preparation

• Negotiation: Do this before the scene begins. Some bottoms become less communicative or nonverbal once they are in sub space. These are the bare minimum checkins
  • Does the bottom have any grass allergies? Jute and hemp can cause allergic reactions.
  • Does the bottom have any injuries/illnesses? Certain positions can exacerbate preexisting conditions.
  • Is the bottom on any recreational drugs or medication? Even prescription medication can affect clotting and breathing, cause fainting, interfere with communication, etc.
  • Does the bottom have a history of anxiety/PTSD? Certain positions/bindings/type of touch can trigger anxiety, flashbacks, and claustrophobia
  • Can the established safeword/gesture can be heard/seen regardless of positioning, equipment such as gags, and even if nerve function is compromised?
• Cutting Tools: For any bondage wherein a bottom could be cut out of the bindings, have a cutting tool in your kit and handy. Do not use knives, razors, exposed blades. These can cause serious injuries. Some good options for cutting tools are:

Cutting Tools

Tool	Pro	Con
Medical shears	Safe, rounded edge Will cut most rope/leather/tape easily	Single use Takes more time due to duller blade
Textile shears	Safe, rounded edge Serrated for better cutting	Hard to apply a lot of force Must be discarded within 1-3 uses
Rescue/Seatbelt Cutter	Safe, rounded edge Very sharp Can keep tool, change the blade after use	Must change blade after each use Can be used incorrectly
Leatherman Shears	Safe, rounded edge Very sharp Can use indefinitely	More expensive than other options Heavier/more bulky than other options

During

Upper body nerve information:

Note: Lack of circulation will be feel different than the sensation of nerve compression/issues. Circulation loss is the familiar "pins and needles" tingly numbness of a limb falling asleep. The bottom might feel like the tied limb is a bit cold or moving more slowly. Nerve issues will most likely present in isolated areas of the limb, for example, an icy feeling specifically in the pinky.

In upper body bondage wherein the hands/arms are tied, there are two major nerves to be aware of.

• Radial nerve runs back of arm from armpit to hand. It affects:
  • Outside thumb/top of hand
  • Straightening and raising elbow/hand/fingers

• Symptoms of radial nerve issues are
  • numbness/weakness/paralysis in hand/arm including wrist drop
  • difficulty straightening hand/arm
  • difficulty grasping/pinching

• Ulnar nerve runs from elbow to hand. Entrapment can cause pain and weakness in fingers/hands. It affects:
  • Outside of pinky/ring fingers, palm and back of hand on pinky side
  • Grip strength and fine motor skills
  • Athletes who use their hands/elbows/wrists heavily, as well as gamers and typists, are more prone to ulnar injury
  • Symptoms of pinched ulnar nerve
    • curved pinky
    • pain in elbow or wrist
    • inability to grasp/fine motor skills
    • numbness

Hand checks: performed while in bondage which crosses wrists/arms (no need in arms free chest harness, etc)

Have bottom tap each finger against their thumb, pinky should feel the same as the other fingers.

Have bottom flex and extend their hands, should have full range of movement

Top place two fingers in bottom's hands and have them squeeze. Should be able to squeeze strongly.

Does my pinky/thumb have a different sensation

Upper body nerve checks:

Total enclosure:

Breathing:

Total enclosure

pull in at ribs/base of neck

capillary refill test

In case of emergency

if something is serious - cut the rope and call 911, better safe than sorry, tell med professionals what actually happened

stay calm/reassuring (riggs)

After

check in next days