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== Appeal <!-- Describe the reasons why people participate in this kink. --> ==
== Appeal <!-- Describe the reasons why people participate in this kink. --> ==
The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic.<ref>{{Cite book |last=Riggs |first=Pete |title=Rope Bondage the Smart Way: A step by step guide to using rope bondage in BDSM |publisher=Pete Riggs |year=2017 |pages=}}</ref> For others
The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic.<ref>{{Cite book |last=Riggs |first=Pete |title=Rope Bondage the Smart Way: A step by step guide to using rope bondage in BDSM |publisher=Pete Riggs |year=2017 |pages=}}</ref> For others, the bond created between submissive and dominant is a motivating factor. Pain is a part of bondage for some people but not for all.


== Methods <!-- Describe the techniques and approaches for how this kink is typically performed. --> ==
== Methods <!-- Describe the techniques and approaches for how this kink is typically performed. --> ==
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== Risks <!-- Describe the risks of this kink. --> ==
== Risks <!-- Describe the risks of this kink. --> ==
Depending on the type of bondage, 
Circulation  
Circulation  


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* '''Negotiation:''' Do this before the scene begins. Some bottoms become less communicative or nonverbal once they are in sub space.   
* '''Negotiation:''' Do this before the scene begins. Some bottoms become less communicative or nonverbal once they are in sub space.   
** Does the bottom have any grass allergies? Jute and hemp can cause allergic reactions.
** Does the bottom have any allergies? Jute/hemp, latex, etc can cause allergic reactions.
*** Does the bottom have an EpiPen/Inhalor?
** Does the bottom have any injuries/illnesses? Certain positions can exacerbate preexisting conditions.
** Does the bottom have any injuries/illnesses? Certain positions can exacerbate preexisting conditions.
** Is the bottom on any recreational drugs or prescription medication? Even prescription medication can affect clotting and breathing, cause fainting, interfere with communication, etc.
** Is the bottom on any recreational drugs or prescription medication? Even prescription medication can affect clotting and breathing, cause fainting, interfere with communication, etc.
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=== During ===
=== During ===
'''Upper body nerve information:'''


Note: Lack of circulation will be feel different than the sensation of nerve compression/issues. Circulation loss is the familiar "pins and needles" tingly numbness of a limb falling asleep. The bottom might feel like the tied limb is a bit cold or moving more slowly. Nerve issues will most likely present in isolated areas of the limb, for example, an icy feeling specifically in the pinky.
==== '''Upper body nerve information:''' ====
Note: Lack of circulation will be feel different than the sensation of nerve compression/issues. Circulation loss is the familiar "pins and needles" tingly numbness of a limb falling asleep. The bottom might feel like the tied limb is a bit cold or moving more slowly. Nerve issues will most likely present in isolated areas of the limb, for example, an icy feeling specifically in the pinky. Nerve compression might have no sensation at all, and only be evident in loss of movement.  


In upper body bondage wherein the hands/arms are tied, there are two major nerves to be aware of.  
In upper body bondage wherein the hands/arms are tied, there are two major nerves to be aware of.  
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* Ulnar<ref name=":1">{{Cite web |title=Ulnar nerve - Cleveland Clinic |url=https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21664-ulnar-nerve}}</ref> nerve runs from elbow to hand. Entrapment can cause pain and weakness in fingers/hands. It affects:
* Ulnar<ref name=":1">{{Cite web |title=Ulnar nerve - Cleveland Clinic |url=https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21664-ulnar-nerve}}</ref> nerve runs from elbow to hand. Entrapment can cause pain and weakness in fingers/hands. It affects:
** Outside of pinky/ring fingers, palm and back of hand on pinky side
** Outside of pinky/ring fingers, palm and back of hand on pinky side
** Grip strength<ref name=":2" /> and fine motor skills
** Grip strength<ref name=":2">{{Cite web |title=Hand Checks - Shibari Study |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiuV4lf_ti4&list=PLduA-UQj-jL-QmvCiSoshEAqF-EWDBUdK&index=1&t=18s}}</ref> and fine motor skills
** Athletes who use their hands/elbows/wrists heavily, as well as gamers and typists, are more prone to ulnar injury<ref name=":1" />
** Athletes who use their hands/elbows/wrists heavily, as well as gamers and typists, are more prone to ulnar injury<ref name=":1" />
** Symptoms of pinched ulnar nerve
** Symptoms of pinched ulnar nerve
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*** numbness
*** numbness


Hand checks: performed while in bondage which crosses wrists/arms (no need in arms free chest harness, etc)
==== Hand checks<ref name=":2" />: ====
 
Note: performed while in bondage which crosses wrists/arms (no need in arms free chest harness)
Have bottom tap each finger against their thumb, pinky should feel the same as the other fingers.


Have bottom flex and extend their hands, should have full range of movement
* Bottom can tap each finger against their thumb. The pinky/ring finger should feel the same as the other fingers. If there is a difference in sensation this can indicated a compression of a nerve.
* Bottom can flex hands forwards and backwards at the wrist. If range of movement is compromised, this can indicate a compression of a nerve.
* Top can place two fingers in bottom's hands and have them squeeze, bottom should be able to squeeze strongly. Weakness can indicate compression of a nerve.


Top place two fingers in bottom's hands and have them squeeze. Should be able to squeeze strongly.  
==== Lower body nerve information:<ref>{{Cite web |title=Common peroneal nerve dysfunction - Mount Sinai |url=https://www.mountsinai.org/health-library/diseases-conditions/common-peroneal-nerve-dysfunction#:~:text=Causes,lower%20leg%2C%20foot%20and%20toes.}}</ref> ====


* Common peroneal nerve
** decreased sensation
** foot drop


Does my pinky/thumb have a different sensation


Upper body nerve checks: <ref name=":2">{{Cite web |title=Hand Checks - Shibari Study |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiuV4lf_ti4&list=PLduA-UQj-jL-QmvCiSoshEAqF-EWDBUdK&index=1&t=18s}}</ref>


[[Total enclosure]]:  
[[Total enclosure]]:  

Revision as of 20:18, 29 January 2024

Bondage
Health risk Moderate
Legal risk Moderate


Bondage is the practice of binding a person with rope, tape, cuffs, or other restraints, for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation [1]

Background

Bondage is an ancient practice. It may be practiced for specific purposes such as sexual acts, for aesthetics/art, for torture, or for meditation.[1] Many practices

Appeal

The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic.[2] For others, the bond created between submissive and dominant is a motivating factor. Pain is a part of bondage for some people but not for all.

Methods

Rope

tape, chain, latex/leather restraints

cuffs


material (mummification)

Total enclosure

clothing (straight jackets, hoods etc)

Suspension (higher risk)

Risks

Depending on the type of bondage,

Circulation

Nerve damage

panic/anxiety/ptsd

dizzy/faint

joint injury

Drop

allergy

Risk mitigation

Preparation

  • Negotiation: Do this before the scene begins. Some bottoms become less communicative or nonverbal once they are in sub space.
    • Does the bottom have any allergies? Jute/hemp, latex, etc can cause allergic reactions.
      • Does the bottom have an EpiPen/Inhalor?
    • Does the bottom have any injuries/illnesses? Certain positions can exacerbate preexisting conditions.
    • Is the bottom on any recreational drugs or prescription medication? Even prescription medication can affect clotting and breathing, cause fainting, interfere with communication, etc.
    • Does the bottom have a history of anxiety/PTSD? Certain positions/bindings/type of touch can trigger anxiety, flashbacks, and claustrophobia.
    • Can the established safeword/gesture can be heard/seen regardless of positioning, equipment such as gags, and even if nerve function is compromised?
  • Cutting Tools: For any bondage wherein a bottom could be cut out of the bindings, have a cutting tool in your kit and handy. Do not use knives, razors, or exposed blades. These can cause serious injuries. Some good options for cutting tools are:
Cutting Tools[3]
Tool Pro Con
Medical shears Safe, rounded edge

Will cut most rope/leather/tape easily

Single use

Takes more time due to duller blade

Textile shears Safe, rounded edge

Serrated for better cutting

Hard to apply a lot of force

Must be discarded within 1-3 uses

Rescue/Seatbelt Cutter Safe, rounded edge

Very sharp

Can keep tool, change the blade after use

Must change blade after each use

Can be used incorrectly

Leatherman Shears Safe, rounded edge

Very sharp

Can use indefinitely

More expensive than other options

Heavier/more bulky than other options

During

Upper body nerve information:

Note: Lack of circulation will be feel different than the sensation of nerve compression/issues. Circulation loss is the familiar "pins and needles" tingly numbness of a limb falling asleep. The bottom might feel like the tied limb is a bit cold or moving more slowly. Nerve issues will most likely present in isolated areas of the limb, for example, an icy feeling specifically in the pinky. Nerve compression might have no sensation at all, and only be evident in loss of movement.

In upper body bondage wherein the hands/arms are tied, there are two major nerves to be aware of.

  • Radial[4] nerve runs back of arm from armpit to hand. It affects:
    • Outside thumb/top of hand
    • Straightening and raising elbow/hand/fingers
  • Symptoms of radial nerve issues are
    • numbness/weakness/paralysis in hand/arm including wrist drop[5]
    • difficulty straightening hand/arm
    • difficulty grasping/pinching
  • Ulnar[6] nerve runs from elbow to hand. Entrapment can cause pain and weakness in fingers/hands. It affects:
    • Outside of pinky/ring fingers, palm and back of hand on pinky side
    • Grip strength[7] and fine motor skills
    • Athletes who use their hands/elbows/wrists heavily, as well as gamers and typists, are more prone to ulnar injury[6]
    • Symptoms of pinched ulnar nerve
      • curved pinky
      • pain in elbow or wrist
      • inability to grasp/fine motor skills
      • numbness

Hand checks[7]:

Note: performed while in bondage which crosses wrists/arms (no need in arms free chest harness)

  • Bottom can tap each finger against their thumb. The pinky/ring finger should feel the same as the other fingers. If there is a difference in sensation this can indicated a compression of a nerve.
  • Bottom can flex hands forwards and backwards at the wrist. If range of movement is compromised, this can indicate a compression of a nerve.
  • Top can place two fingers in bottom's hands and have them squeeze, bottom should be able to squeeze strongly. Weakness can indicate compression of a nerve.

Lower body nerve information:[8]

  • Common peroneal nerve
    • decreased sensation
    • foot drop


Total enclosure:

Breathing:

Total enclosure

pull in at ribs/base of neck

capillary refill test[9]

In case of emergency

if something is serious - cut the rope and call 911, better safe than sorry, tell med professionals what actually happened

stay calm/reassuring (riggs)

After

check in next days

Known incidents

References

  1. ↑ 1.0 1.1 "Bondage - Wikipedia".
  2. ↑ Riggs, Pete (2017). Rope Bondage the Smart Way: A step by step guide to using rope bondage in BDSM. Pete Riggs.
  3. ↑ "General Rope Bondage Safety - Shibari Study".
  4. ↑ "Radial nerve - Cleveland Clinic".
  5. ↑ DeCastro, Alexei. "Wrist Drop". StatPearls – via PubMed.
  6. ↑ 6.0 6.1 "Ulnar nerve - Cleveland Clinic".
  7. ↑ 7.0 7.1 "Hand Checks - Shibari Study".
  8. ↑ "Common peroneal nerve dysfunction - Mount Sinai".
  9. ↑ "Capillary Refill Time Test: Normal vs Abnormal - Nursing Clinical Skills".
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