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=== Mental & emotional === | === Mental & emotional === | ||
==== Panic or | ==== Panic or anxiety ==== | ||
Being restrained can trigger feelings of panic or anxiety in some individuals, especially if they have past trauma or negative experiences associated with confinement or loss of control. | Being restrained can trigger feelings of panic or anxiety in some individuals, especially if they have past trauma or negative experiences associated with confinement or loss of control. | ||
==== Emotional and psychological | ==== Emotional and psychological risks ==== | ||
Bondage can evoke strong emotional and psychological responses, including vulnerability, fear, excitement, or arousal. The resulting sub drop can also be intense for both parties. | Bondage can evoke strong emotional and psychological responses, including vulnerability, fear, excitement, or arousal. The resulting sub drop can also be intense for both parties. | ||
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** Make sure the trusted person knows where the scene is and has access to the location, e.g. physical keys and access codes. | ** Make sure the trusted person knows where the scene is and has access to the location, e.g. physical keys and access codes. | ||
* Write and schedule a "dead man's switch" message before the scene starts. Address it to trusted people, explain the situation, and schedule it to send some time after the scene is expected to end. | * Write and schedule a "dead man's switch" message before the scene starts. Address it to trusted people, explain the situation, and schedule it to send some time after the scene is expected to end. (Many messaging platforms and email providers offer scheduling functionality).<ref>https://support.google.com/mail/answer/9214606</ref><ref>https://telegram.org/blog/scheduled-reminders-themes</ref> The message should emphasize the urgency of the situation and ask the person to call emergency services (or take some other action). If the scene ends without incident, delete the message after the submissive is released. If the message is not deleted, the system will automatically send the message at the scheduled time. | ||
** This method comes with several downsides, specifically that it requires (1) a reliable Internet connection (2) trust in a third-party messaging platform. | ** This method comes with several downsides, specifically that it requires (1) a reliable Internet connection (2) trust in a third-party messaging platform. | ||
** It may be useful to address the message to several people. | ** It may be useful to address the message to several people. | ||