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== Background <!-- Provide background information for this kink. --> == | == Background <!-- Provide background information for this kink. --> == | ||
Bondage may be practiced for specific purposes such as sexual acts, for aesthetics/art, for torture, or for meditation.<ref name=":0" /> It can also be used more generally, creating power dynamics and releasing endorphins. | Bondage may be practiced for specific purposes such as sexual acts, for aesthetics/art, for torture, or for meditation.<ref name=":0" /> It can also be used more generally, creating power dynamics and releasing endorphins. | ||
== Appeal <!-- Describe the reasons why people participate in this kink. --> == | == Appeal <!-- Describe the reasons why people participate in this kink. --> == | ||
The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic.<ref>{{Cite book |last=Riggs |first=Pete |title=Rope Bondage the Smart Way: A step by step guide to using rope bondage in BDSM |publisher=Pete Riggs |year=2017 |pages=}}</ref> For others, the bond created between submissive and dominant is a motivating factor. Some practitioners like the element of pain, and others prefer a more sensual, caressing sensation. | The appeal of this practice varies individually and situationally. For some, the appeal is erotic in nature. Bondage can create intensified sensation, opportunity to act out a fantasy, or an appealing aesthetic.<ref>{{Cite book |last=Riggs |first=Pete |title=Rope Bondage the Smart Way: A step by step guide to using rope bondage in BDSM |publisher=Pete Riggs |year=2017 |pages=}}</ref> For others, the bond created between submissive and dominant is a motivating factor. Some practitioners like the element of pain, and others prefer a more sensual, caressing sensation. | ||
Some enjoy [[long-term bondage]] which in itself presents with its own risks. | |||
== Methods <!-- Describe the techniques and approaches for how this kink is typically performed. --> == | == Methods <!-- Describe the techniques and approaches for how this kink is typically performed. --> == | ||
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[[Suspension]]: Can be incorporated with any of these methods, and carries a higher risk of injury. | [[Suspension]]: Can be incorporated with any of these methods, and carries a higher risk of injury. | ||
== Risks | == Risks == | ||
Due to the variety of bondage methods and styles, the risks vary in probability and seriousness. The following is a list of more common risks with bondage. | Due to the variety of bondage methods and styles, the risks vary in probability and seriousness. The following is a list of more common risks with bondage: | ||
=== Physical === | |||
==== Nerve damage & circulation issues ==== | |||
Tight restraints or prolonged immobilization can put pressure on nerves and restrict blood flow, potentially leading to nerve damage, numbness, tingling, or loss of sensation in the bound areas. Primary areas to look out for are the wrists and ankles to produce wrist and foot drop respectively. This risk is particularly relevant in long-term bondage scenarios or when restraints are applied incorrectly. | |||
==== Joint injury ==== | |||
Particularly stressful or tight bondage positions can put a lot of stress on the joints. If not careful these joints can be injured. | |||
==== Bruising, abrasions, & skin injuries ==== | |||
Improperly applied restraints or rough handling can cause bruising, abrasions, or skin injuries, especially if the bound individual struggles against the restraints. It's essential to use appropriate padding, avoid tying restraints too tightly, and regularly check for signs of discomfort or injury. | |||
==== Breathing difficulties ==== | |||
Certain bondage positions, such as those that involve restraint around the chest or neck, can restrict breathing and pose a risk of asphyxiation, especially if the bound individual is unable to communicate distress. | |||
==== Accidental injury ==== | |||
Careless or reckless use of bondage equipment, such as ropes, cuffs, or suspension gear, can result in accidental injury (such as a fall) to both the bound individual and the person applying the restraints. | |||
==== Allergic reactions ==== | |||
Some individuals may have allergies to materials used in bondage equipment like latex, leather, or specific types of rope (hemp/jute). | |||
==== Fainting ==== | |||
Prolonged restraint or intense sensations can trigger fainting due to factors like anxiety or changes in blood pressure. | |||
==== Overheating ==== | |||
Depending on the bondage and the environment, the sub may be at risk of overheating due to physical exertion, clothing or (full coverage) bondage gear. | |||
=== Mental & emotional === | |||
==== Panic or anxiety ==== | |||
Being restrained can trigger feelings of panic or anxiety in some individuals, especially if they have past trauma or negative experiences associated with confinement or loss of control. | |||
==== Emotional and psychological risks ==== | |||
Bondage can evoke strong emotional and psychological responses, including vulnerability, fear, excitement, or arousal. The resulting sub drop can also be intense for both parties. | |||
=== Other === | |||
==== Inescapable bondage ==== | |||
Some scenes may involve bondage that is completely inescapable, requiring the assistance of a second person (a dominant partner) to apply and undo the restraints to the submissive. If the dominant partner becomes incapacitated (e.g. due to a medical emergency), this could result in serious injury or death to the submissive. | |||
'''Mitigation''': Disclose details about the scene to a trusted third-party and ask them to physically intervene or call emergency services if the dominant/submissive does not check in by a certain time. Here are a few suggestions for how to do this. | |||
* Ask a trusted person who is located in physical proximity to physically intervene if the dominant/submissive does not check in by a certain time. | |||
** Make sure the trusted person knows where the scene is and has access to the location, e.g. physical keys and access codes. | |||
* | * Write and schedule a "dead man's switch" message before the scene starts. Address it to trusted people, explain the situation, and schedule it to send some time after the scene is expected to end. (Many messaging platforms and email providers offer scheduling functionality).<ref>https://support.google.com/mail/answer/9214606</ref><ref>https://telegram.org/blog/scheduled-reminders-themes</ref> The message should emphasize the urgency of the situation and ask the person to call emergency services (or take some other action). If the scene ends without incident, delete the message after the submissive is released. If the message is not deleted, the system will automatically send the message at the scheduled time. | ||
* | ** This method comes with several downsides, specifically that it requires (1) a reliable Internet connection (2) trust in a third-party messaging platform. | ||
** It may be useful to address the message to several people. | |||
** It may be useful to have a message template if frequently engaging in inescapable bondage. | |||
== Risk mitigation <!-- Describe the risk mitigation for this kink. --> == | == Risk mitigation <!-- Describe the risk mitigation for this kink. --> == | ||